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Wilfrido “Willie” Garcia passed away Saturday, October 19, 2024. He was surrounded by his family as he drew his last breaths. Larger than life, those who knew him and shared in his strength will never forget him. Born on March 12, 1934, in Rio Grande to Elias and Carlota Garcia, he lived there until he met and married his partner for life Maria Louisa Garcia in 1961. Willie was the second of six children: Ninfa Longoria, Oscar Garcia, Mario Garcia, Dalia Olivarez, and Yolanda Alvarez. Willie and Maria Louisa’s marriage produced three children: Wilfrido Rogelio Garcia, Carlos Andrés Garcia, and Imelda Aurora Garcia.
Whether you knew him as Willie, Coach, Wilón, or Mr. Garcia – you never forgot him. Like so many of his generation, his was a difficult journey. Not only born into extreme poverty, his life was further complicated by the accident that would change his life forever. Electrocuted in November of 1948 at fourteen years of age, his right arm would have to be amputated at the shoulder. Being a natural right- hander he had to learn to stand, walk, hold a pencil, and write as a toddler or child would. The tenacity and fortitude cultivated during this experience would serve Willie the rest of his life. Never one to let an obstacle stand in his way, he went on to become a star athlete in football in high school and baseball in college.
Willie’s athletic prowess gained him local recognition and landed him a position as pitcher with the Pan American Broncs where he worked for his room and board as a dining room attendant at the college’s Faculty Club.
Strident determination would define the young man who lived in a home without electricity and with only a dirt floor even after graduating from Pan American College. He met and fell in love with Maria Louisa while they were teaching in Rio Grande. Their life together began on December 27, 1961. Willie always wanted to coach and did the same at his first campus in La Grulla. It was that first taste of coaching that led to his initial stint as a head football coach at Cummings Jr. High in Brownsville. He cherished the kids he coached at Cummings and led them to city titles while there. Willie eventually moved to St. Joseph’s Academy where he would make his mark at the state level coaching boys track. Willie would lead the Bloodhounds to back-to-back State Titles in track – 1970 & 1971. A feat not repeated since in RGV sports. Willie would then leave coaching to concentrate on earning his master’s degree in education. A promise he had made to his wife, as educational leadership was his next goal. Willie and his family packed up and moved to San Benito where he taught high school algebra while attending night classes toward that degree. In 1980, his final move would come to the place he would call home and raise his family – La Joya. Willie would eventually take the helm at Benavides Elementary School in Sullivan City where his kids and teachers were repeatedly recognized by the Texas Education Agency for educational excellence. He retired from the district in 1995 and lived out the balance of his life enjoying his many grandchildren, and great grandchildren.
Willie was one of only two people ever inducted into both the Rio Grande Sports Hall of Fame and the Leo Najo Baseball Hall of Fame.
Willie stood at 6’4” with a booming voice made to tell stories and jokes. He had a joy for life that was infectious to all around him. Despite his streak of discipline and steadfastness, he strove to bring laughter and fun to the people he loved. An enthusiast for a game of chance, he could often be found regaling his friends with the latest tale over a card game, traveling to Vegas for their chance for a dance with Lady Luck, or picking his favorite pony at the track. He was an avid outdoorsman and hunter who took pride in teaching his children and grandchildren responsible husbandry and conservation through his example. Some of his fondest memories were sitting with his grandchildren in the chilly early morning stillness of a deer blind right before they made their first kill, whispering to them about the importance of being a steward for the land. Whether it was horse racing, card games, or hunting – for him the action was the juice and he wanted to squeeze out every last drop. He could often be found lending his big voice to accompany his friends in song, singing and dancing well into the night. He taught all those around him that with hard work came the freedom to enjoy the beauty of life. Fiercely protective, he worried about who would watch over his family when he was gone. His vigilant phone calls about whether the doors were locked and the outside lights were on will be missed for the sweet goodnights and blessings that they came with.
Now he rests as rest he should after a well lived life. We love you dad and thank you for all you gave us in this world, Rest in peace.
Visitation will be held from 1:00 pm to 9:00 pm on Thursday, October 24, 2024 at Rivera Funeral Home of McAllen with the Holy Rosary being recited at 7:00 pm. Funeral Mass will be held at 10:00 am Friday, October 25, 2024 at Our Lady Queen of Angels Catholic Church in La Joya. Interment will follow at Valley Memorial Gardens in Mission.
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